The Real Situation of the Second Marriage Market


1. Women who are divorced and have a son usually deter most men.
2. Men who are divorced and have children, whether boys or girls, most women are unwilling to accept.
3. When both parties are divorced and have children, there will be suspicion and concerns about each other, worried that the other has ulterior motives.
4. Although it is a second marriage, women’s demands for marriage dowries and the three golds are not reduced at all, and all are indispensable.
5. The partners they dated when young are mostly not mature enough; after divorce, remarriage will pay more attention to practical conditions.
6. In the second marriage market, older women and men with average looks are at a disadvantage and find it difficult to find suitable partners.
7. Women with good conditions who are divorced often do not easily choose to remarry.
8. Most divorced men still hope to find a new partner to spend the rest of their lives.
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BridgeUnderTheMoonlight
· 24m ago
The biggest fear of a second marriage isn't poor conditions, but failing to fill the gaps from the previous relationship. Entering again with emotional baggage and debt makes it even harder.
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PerpMoodSwing
· 3h ago
A divorced man looking for a partner, I believe in that.
But if he's only looking for a "free nanny + emotional support," no one is willing to take on that role.
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GaslightGuardian
· 3h ago
Don't speak of the "market" as too cold; ultimately, it's a match between two people: values, boundaries, and responsibilities toward the children.
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AirdropCheck-InOfficer
· 4h ago
I think point 3 hits the mark: each bringing their kids + each having shadows of exes, trust costs directly double.
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LateFeeLeo
· 4h ago
The key is transparency: economy, child support, mortgage, the degree of involvement of both parents' families. Clarifying these makes second marriages more stable.
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SushiRebalance
· 4h ago
Don't always judge based on age and appearance. Many people choose not to remarry not because they can't find someone, but because they don't want to go through building a family together all over again.
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MistBlueLily
· 4h ago
Reality is indeed quite stark.
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